Life is as beautiful as you make it. For every viewer there is a different view and perspective of what they see and therefore experience. Yet, many times others judgements and opinions block our own view to see how precious our life is and as a soul how beautiful we are. We get lost in what others want us to be and we get lost in wanting to please others and be able to fit in or to stand out to feel special. We don't even realize that we deny our own self worth and acceptance of who we truly are. What we need to do is stop to have expectations of what we want others to think of us, stop having expectations of we want others to do for us and towards us and just love ourselves for who we are. Believe in ourselves and know that we are beautiful and unique in our own ways.
Like a blooming flower we go through a cycle. We go through growth, we go through low moments and we bloom when we experience good moments. Point is not to lose yourself at times when it is gloomy, difficult times but to know that we will bloom again and see the beautiful in life as we experience and as we grow through our souls journey.
Life is short so chose to live it not in worry, agony or despair but rather remember to chose to see the good in every difficult situation, chose to connect to what's important to the soul and surround yourself with people who you love, those who will always support you and lift you up and finally remove yourself from those that only judge and criticise you because you don't fit into their view of expectations.